About +ProActive Approaches

Transforming how care and education professionals understand behaviour

Our goal is to enhance quality of life for everyone with a compelling emphasis on the benefits of healthy, therapeutic relationships. We do this by delivering trauma and research-informed, attachment aware education with a strong focus on reducing restrictive practices & restraint (#AimingForZero).

What we stand for

Our approach

Trauma-informed

We understand that behaviour is communication. Every programme is grounded in trauma theory and attachment awareness, helping professionals respond rather than react.

Evidence-based

Our curriculum is built on peer-reviewed research, published works, and decades of front-line experience across residential care, education, and healthcare settings.

#AimingForZero

We have a documented track record of achieving up to 80% reductions in restraint use. Our goal is a future where restrictive practices are unnecessary.

30+
Years combined experience
500+
Organisations trained
80%
Restraint reduction achieved
BILD Act
Certified programmes

Our team

The people behind +ProActive Approaches

Simon Gower

Simon Gower

CEO & Founder

DipSW | Qualified Social Worker

A leading UK voice on trauma-responsive care and restraint reduction. Author of The Empathy Gap and creator of the #AimingForZero philosophy for psychologically safe teams.

Maria Marques-Neves

Maria Marques-Neves

Chief Operating Officer

15+ years management consultancy

13 years in social care and education. Previously led a successful management training and consultancy business, with experience at Director and Managing Director level.

Helen Knowling

Helen Knowling

Development Lead & Senior Trainer

L5 Diploma | L5 ILM Leadership & Management

19 years in SEMH children's residential and special educational settings. Implemented the Secure Base Model of Care in 2014.

Gary Collins

Gary Collins

Senior Trainer

RGN | Registered General Nurse (32 years)

Clinical Practice Development Nurse for a large General Hospital. Physical intervention instructor since 2002 with extensive NHS and adolescent Secure Estate experience.

Phil Cairns

Phil Cairns

Senior Trainer

L3 Certificate Education and Training

Working with children and young people since 2009, with a focus on SEMH residential and specialist educational settings. Lead coordinator for 9 in-house trainers.

Lucy Pearce

Lucy Pearce

Senior Trainer

L5 Diploma in Leadership in Reducing Restrictive Practices

A decade of leadership experience and creator of the bespoke BILD-certified trauma-informed programme RiiSE. Advanced Diploma in Therapeutic Life Story Work.

Published works

Grounded in published research and practice

Published 2025

The Empathy Gap

Simon Gower's landmark book exploring why empathy breaks down in care and education settings, and what professionals can do to restore it. Essential reading for anyone working with children and young people who present behaviours of concern.

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Upcoming

Removing the Barriers to Learning

Simon Gower's forthcoming title examines the systemic and relational barriers that prevent children from accessing education, and offers a practical framework for schools and residential settings to remove them.

Coming soonFind out more

Ready to work with us?

Whether you need in-house training, open courses, or consultancy, we're ready to help your team make lasting change.